Daily Devotions for Caregivers

 I was remembering some "normal" things I used to do BC (before caregiving). There are lots of things I miss, like hiking, camping, and spontaneity. We talk about our new normal  a lot now that we are caregivers, like the old normal went away. And in many ways, many parts of it are gone. But then my thoughts took a little different turn. Sure, we have our new normal to figure out and deal with. But much of our old normal  didn't go away at all. For example, I don't know about you, but I still have to work, pay bills, do laundry, shop, and bathe myself occasionally. (I do - really!) It's like having a double normal, a normal times two. All the parts of the old normal that got to hang around in our new normal have been adapted and adjusted to the new normal, but they didn't go anywhere. No wonder we are tired! We are dealing with a double normal - normal times two! Thinking about all that just made me more tired. Lol. But then, my mind went to Matthew 11:28. It...

 I love the honesty that God allowed to be in the Bible. In fact, it was David's heartfelt, raw emotions in Psalm 13 that helped me deal with grief. Sometimes, grief is treated as a sin, or at least something we should just get over  and move along. And the weariness that can accompany caregiving is not understood any better than grief. The caregiver's weariness is a whole different creature, and for the most part, we can't do one thing about it. We certainly can't stop and rest. Caregivers are troopers and just keep putting one foot in front of the other. Step by step, we conquer each day, all the while feeling like it is conquering us.  I stumbled onto Proverbs 30:1 this morning. Agur says this:  I am weary, O God; I am weary and worn out, O God. (NLT 1996) Four things stood out to me.  Firstly, Agur admits that he is weary. He just flat-out says it - I am tired.  Secondly, he addresses his feelings to God. - I am weary, God! It's interesting to me becaus...

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 Who hasn't heard Isaiah 40:31? It was one of our favorite verses to sing back in the 70's when the practice was to put music to scriptures. We sang everything! And most of the time, it was old King James Version, too! You could hear it ringing out, They that wait upon the Lord, shall renew their strength. They shall mount up with wings as eagles. They shall run and not be weary. They shall walk and not faint.  But some days, waiting sounds like a lot of work, especially if I am going to have to fly like an eagle, run any distance, or walk across the room. :-) I literally think there are some times when waiting seems like it takes way too much energy. Caregiver exhaustion is no joke.  Maybe that's a good time to back up a couple of verses. In verse 28, Isaiah reminds us that God does not get tired like us. In fact, in Isaiah 30:18, the prophet explains that God is waiting on us.  And He still doesn't get tired or weary. Obviously, that's two different levels. Tired....

 There have been many times when I'm sure God has carried me through situations. I'm pretty sure there have been some times that He's carried me kicking and screaming. Lol. As caregivers, we all have those times when we feel like we can't go on. Sometimes, it can seem like we can't even move, especially emotionally. Somehow, we make it. But we know that it is only because He is carrying us. Well, I finally found it in a scripture!  The last part of Isaiah 46:4 (NLT 1996) says I will carry you along and save you. I was so excited to be reminded of this truth. It's funny how we can read something just when we need it. I'm sure I've read it before; I've probably even written about it before. LOL. But there it sits in black and white.  In some strange way, it brings comfort just knowing that God is close enough to scoop me up as needed. But there is so much more to this verse. I've focused on how David regularly made declarations. In fact, all throug...

 Romans 8:28 is a popular go-to scripture. Mostly, we use it for everything in life that we don't understand. Nothing wrong with that, really. It can be encouraging to know that God can use adverse circumstances for good. It's meant to bring comfort, but sometimes, it feels more like salt in a wound. Why? Because it doesn't "fix" our situations. It still gives us hope that there are "better" days ahead, whatever that might look like. As caregivers, we can use this verse as a reminder that God will bring good out of our lives. I mean, think of it this way. The verse doesn't say God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose, unless  you're a caregiver. So, it does bring some hope, even if it doesn't provide direct answers. However, sometimes we stop with verse 28 without realizing there's a whole lot of chapter left! Verse 29 continues the thought in the NLT, with for... th...